But I Dont Want Muscles! Part 1: What Muscle is, and how to Build (or Avoid) It – Build-Muscle
But I Dont Want Muscles! Part 1: What Muscle is, and how to Build (or Avoid) It
One of the common comments I hear from my female clients is, "Please don't give me any weights work ? I don't want any muscle, I just want to tone." The reasons differ from client to client, but it most often they seem to be based on a misunderstanding of what muscle is, how we build it, what it has to do with weight loss ? or some combination of the above. There's a lot of misinformation outside of the fitness world about muscles and what they do, so I'd like to spend the next two articles exploring the realities behind the myths.WHAT IS MUSCLE?When I was younger, I'd never really thought about what the 'stuff' between my skin and my bones was made of. I understood that muscles were what bodybuilders had, and fat was something that made you fat, and that I had some of each. I think, though, that I believed that they existed inside some kind of other substance that filled the space between my skin and my bones. Then, in secondary school, I learned that, in a healthy person, most of this magical substance was just muscle. In fact, I learned that, aside from my body's networks of organs, blood vessels and nerves, and my skeleton there isn't really much under my skin except for muscle and fat.I learned that muscles were an incredible network of fibres that allowed me to move my limbs, to stay sitting or standing upright, to talk, breathe, and pretty much to translate any thought I had into action of some kind. I learned that if I didn't use them, muscles would shrink and weaken, and if I did, they'd grow stronger. And I learned that as my muscles grew stronger, so did I.All of this was quite a revelation for me at the time, so I can understand the initial confusion that exists amongst so many of my clients ? why they want to tone without building muscles. The truth though, is that muscle is the only thing under their skin that can be toned, and that 'toning' often simply means that muscles become slightly more visible (which then makes the whole body look smoother and firmer). So without enough muscle to start with, there's nothing there that can be toned.BULIDING THE RIGHT SIZED MUSCLESOften, the clients I speak to don't have a problem with the idea of a little muscle. The problem is that many don't realise it isn't an 'all or nothing' thing. Unfortunately, because of the lack of clear information out there in the media, the only image they have to associate 'women' with 'muscle' is one of a female bodybuilder at the peak of her competition physique. Not that there's anything wrong with wanting such a physique if that's a client's aim, but for most of the women I speak to, the possibility of developing such large, defined muscles is really quite scary!Those kinds of muscles, however, don't happen quickly or easily. Really large muscles require long, intense workouts over a period of time, and a base level of testosterone ? a hormone most women don't have in sufficient quantities (without the use of steroids, anyway) for size to become a problem. Granted, there are women with naturally high testosterone levels (and I'm one!), who will put on muscle more quickly. But even for me, muscles don't suddenly appear, fully-formed overnight. So if I notice I'm gradually building size in an area I don't want it, it's not difficult for me to change my training in that body area to gradually reduce the size again.Also, many people believe any kind of weights work will automatically increase muscle size. The truth is that not all training produces size increases. There are a number of variables you can play with in strength training ? the heaviness of the weight, the number of repetitions of the movement, and the time you allow yourself to rest between groups of repetitions (or sets). Very generally speaking, training with a heavy weight and low repetitions in each set will increase strength; training with a medium-to-heavy weight and medium repetitions will increase muscle size; and training with a lighter weight with high repetitions per set will increase endurance.In practice, it's not actually quite this simple, and there are other factors to consider. The important point is that not all training will increase muscle size, that some muscle is necessary if you want to tone, and that working with a competent trainer will help ensure you get only the results that you want from your training.In Part 2 of the article (http://optimumlife.co.nz/Fitness%20Articles/Muscle/Muscle2.htm), we look at why muscle is so important for weight management and long- term health.Copyright 2005 Tanja GardnerOptimum Life's Tanja Gardner is a Personal Trainer and Stress Management Coach whose articles on holistic health and relaxation have appeared in various media since 1999. Optimum Life is dedicated to providing fitness and stress management services to help clients all over the world achieve their optimum lives.To read more articles like this one, please subscribe to Optimum Fitness News at http://optimumlife.co.nz/Newsletter%20Signup.htm.To find out more about how you could benefit from online personal training, please visit http://www.trainerforce.com/optimumlife/.To find out more about holistic fitness and stress management please visit http://optimumlife.co.nz, or contact Tanja on tanja@optimumlife.co.nz.
?Im Not A Christian, But I Play One On Sunday
?Im Not A Christian, But I Play One On Sunday
After more than three decades of church ministry, I have come to one unsettling conclusion. Actually, I've come to more than one conclusion, but this one is the most depressing.That conclusion is simply this: all who say they are going to Heaven are not actually on the right path, going in the right direction. Most, of course, have the best intentions, but good intentions don't make up for going in the wrong direction.Our government insists advertisers adhere to what they call "truth in advertising." I would like to insist on something I call "truth in testimony." By that, I mean what people say about themselves should be the truth. If this could ever be enacted by Congress, some people will have to say, "I'm not a Christian, but I play one on Sunday."I've always thought of it this way, if you're not a Christian on Saturday night, you're not a Christian on Sunday morning, which may be the ultimate test. Christianity is not a time-sensitive lifestyle turned on Sunday morning and expiring by nightfall.Christianity is not like St. Patrick's Day, where for that one day everyone is Irish. Also, Christianity is not like a part-time job you take to make ends meet.For example, take a guy who was in my office one day last month. I never saw him before and didn't know him from Adam. He saw our church, he said, as he was driving by and thought he would stop in and visit. "You have a real nice church here, reverend," he praised.As soon as I saw him, I knew what he was after. His job was to see how much of my money and the church's money he could put into his pocket. My job, of course, was to make his job impossible.I've played this game before and, not bragging, I've become rather good at it. Not that I have not lost my share of games, for I have. But after losing hundreds of dollars to scoundrels, I've learned how to play the game.The key to winning is never letting your guard down, and more importantly, never allow your opponent to suck you into his sympathy scam. One man actually brought with him a little girl he pawned off as his daughter.Looking into her big brown eyes my hand automatically went to my wallet. I'm sorry to say I lost that one and later found out the little girl was not his daughter.This man in my office, let's call him "Ralph," had a different scheme. He was trying to impress me with how good a Christian he really was. Although he may not have been a good Christian, he sure knew how to tell a good line. All along, he was trying to impress me that he really knew God.I could tell Ralph knew God about as well as I knew the President of the United States. It was then an idea hit me.While he talked to me, I was trying to figure out how I could convince him that he really didn't know God. Sure, he knew a lot of things about God and could quote a bushel full of Bible verses as though that would impress me. Entrance into heaven is not contingent upon impressing some preacher.I knew Ralph really did not know God personally. My problem was to persuade him of that fact.It's almost like someone who smokes cigarettes trying to convince someone who doesn't smoke that they don't smoke. The smoker does not smell the smoke but the non-smoker smells it right away. Similarly, I can readily tell when someone doesn't know God personally.As we were talking, an idea came to mind. Ralph was sitting across my desk from me and between us was my telephone. So I said to Ralph, "Do you know the President of the United States?"Ralph looked at me a little perplexed with this question out of the blue and said, "Sure, I do. It's George W. Bush.""Great," I said pushing the telephone towards him, "use my telephone and call him for me."He laughed and pushed the telephone back.Thrusting the phone back toward him I said, "You do know the President of the United States, don't you?"He laughed a nervous little chuckle. "The president of the United States is George W. Bush." Then he shoved the phone back toward me."You know him?" I persisted. As he nodded in the affirmative, a worried look embraced his face. I could see he didn't quite understand what I was getting at."Ralph," I explained, "you may know who the President of the United States is and you may know a lot about him. But you don't know George W. Bush enough to call him on the phone."People who say they know God only know things about God. People who say they know Jesus Christ only know things about him. If you don't know God enough to reach Him when you need Him, you don't know Him at all.I like the Apostle Paul's testimony. He said, "That I may know him, and the power of his resurrection, and the fellowship of his sufferings, being made conformable unto his death;" (Philippians 3:10 KJV.)A friend of mine has a favorite saying that he likes to quote; "Either Jesus is Lord of all or he is not Lord at all." That about sums up the whole matter.About The Author:
Maybe Not Bones, But Hearts…And Worse: The Destructive Power of Simple Speech
Maybe Not Bones, But Hearts...And Worse: The Destructive Power of Simple Speech
Out of the blue, slap bang in the middle of a working day, an
unexplained sensation inside your mouth breaks your
concentration.You have deadlines to meet, and you react
merely by immersing yourself with new determination in the
task in hand.At least until the next day, when the mild discomfort has
progressed to a stabbing pain.Any wishful thinking that the
fate of the whole world depends on your finishing your work is
now irrelevant. When you reach the dentist, he shakes his
head sympathetically and jabs a needle right into your gums.Wonderful thing, these anesthetics. The ache is gone even
before he lays a finger on that troublesome tooth!Now, let's imagine you were created with a kind of natural
anesthetic, that washed your mouth continuously so that you
never got toothache. Good? Probably not. You'd never know
when a tooth needed attention, until it would be far too late.Horrified and sickened..
Problem is, this isn't as far fetched as it may seem. You see,
you get anesthetics for the body, and other anesthetics for the
mind.A former teacher, John Andrew Murray, wrote in Teachers in
Focus magazine about his
experiences with an English class at a private American
school.In order to spice his lessons, Murray was using the old
television series, "Alfred Hitchcock Presents" each week to
teach his students about plot development.After a few weeks, he decided to stop the show before the end and let the
students write their own endings. The students liked the ideas
so much that they wanted to read their work aloud in class.After about the third student, he put a stop to the reading
aloud. What the teacher had heard horrified and sickened him.When he later discussed with them the very explicit imagery
of violence he had found in their papers, Murray's students
were quick to insist that media violence didn't affect them
because the graphic scenes they saw on TV and films were
"fake". Murray then asked them how they would feel if they
saw a dog on TV getting riddled with bullets."How horrible!" they cried out in unison.Murray concludes that unlike the human carnage they
regularly witnessed on TV, his students had found animal
deaths appalling because they had seldom seen it. For the
first time, they realized how desensitized they had become to
violence.Sad, isn't it?The truth is, with most human beings the desensitization
process goes even further. Much further. Sometimes, it's
good. ( We eventually "get over" a loss, or forget a traumatic
episode.) More often, it's anything but good.Remarkable human talent
Take the remarkable human talent for hurting others by what
we say.At times, it's deliberate; we WANT to inflict verbal
pain on our friends -whether we admit it or not. (Often, this is
to compensate ourselves for imagined feelings of inferiority).
At other times, we don't intend to offend, but do so
nonetheless.It's the art of anesthesia again. We've become desensitized.A seemingly innocuous example. A friend may have a spouse,
child, or parent who's critically ill. We unwittingly reassure her: "Don't worry, everything will be fine."She's not comforted. Just the reverse. She knows everything won't be fine.For that matter, why tell a friend who bought herself a new
dress last week, even if she asks for your opinion, that it looks
terrible on her? (I'm assuming it's already too late for her to do
anything about it; if she can, that might be different, provided
you tell her the right way!)I won't even talk here of purposeful innuendos, backhanded
compliments, slurs and insults. At all times, people who really
want to spread love in the world should take extra care with
their speech.Do you remember the schoolyard chant: "Sticks and stones
may break my bones, but words can never hurt me!Utter tripe!OK, words may be rarely able to break bones, but they can
break our hearts, our spirits, even our reputations.And yes, our ability to develop and maintain meaningful
relationships.Azriel Winnett is creator of Hodu.com - Your Communication Skills Portal. This popular free website helps you improve your communication and relationship skills in your business or professional life, in the family unit and on the social scene. New articles added almost daily.