How to Attract Girls Even If Youre Short
How to Attract Girls Even If Youre Short
Let me mention a few names and you can tell me what they all have in common:
- Al Pacino
- Humphrey Bogart
- Napoleon
That's right... they're all short guys. But you know what? They were all awesome with the ladies (and not just because of their celebrity status... they were all players before they became famous.)
In fact, the reason they could attract girls was because of their strong inner attitude.
There are a couple things you can do in the short term. Wearing boots right now will subtly add 2 or 3 inches to your height.
Also, when you dress, wear vertical stripes and tight clothes. That will make you look SLENDER, which will make you appear taller.
Long term, one way short guys can be more dominant physically is to work out. In fact that really should be first and foremost. If you've got muscles, it helps A LOT, not only with your physical appearance, but also with your confidence levels, strong inner attitude, and poise. So get in the gym.
When you're muscular and you're a short guy, you become like a pit bull. And by the way, I'd like you to experiment with that.. do not always be the nice guy who's polite. For the next few months, try to let your "inner badass" come out a bit when you're with girls.
Do the affirmation, "I'm becoming like the pitbull who can dominate the bigger dogs."
Once you start feeling more and more confident in a few weeks, change your affirmation to, "I AM like the pitbull who can dominate bigger dogs."
I've noticed that a lot of short guys develop a VERY strong presence by having cultivated that inner badass.
Now, I'm not saying you should become a jerk... but just try to balance out that inner nice guy.
Next thing to do long term is to GIVE UP any approval-seeking. Who cares what women think of you? Go through life doing what you want and being who you are. (That is so key by the way... those guys I list above were players exactly because they went through life doing what they wanted and being true to who they were.)
You see, short guys who are badasses really have a bit of an advantage. Because of their stature, they automatically are able to have more rapport with chicks (who tend to be short themselves) than the guys who are beanpoles. And when you add to that a bit of a "badboy" element, it makes chicks dripping wet with attraction.
The bottom line is this: only if YOU feel uncomfortable with your height will it affect you with the girls. If you feel completely comfortable with your height, then they will too.
By the way, when it comes to tall guys, what women find attractive about them isn't their height. It's their dominance. If you have a tight sense of inner confidence, and project a personality that sucks them in, height will be the furthest thing from their minds.
So to sum up, be true to yourself, take risks in life, cultivate your inner badass, and stop caring about anyone's approval. And hit the gym ASAP. And do the fashion things I said.
Then you'll attract girls without worrying about irrelevant things like height.John Alexander is author of How to Become an Alpha Male, a girl-attracting success system that will have you easily drawing women toward you like a magnet. Find out more by visiting http://www.alphamalesystem.com/ebook.html
Any Woman Can Become a Modern Goddess and Attract Good Things With Ease
Any Woman Can Become a Modern Goddess and Attract Good Things With Ease
The Great Goddess may be an ancient echo in the collective
unconscious of the human race, but her legacy still lives in every
woman. Today's woman is rediscovering her inherent female strengths and creating a new model of feminine power: the "Modern Goddess." The 20th
century ushered in the modern era of more freedom and more rights for
women. Another big push came in the 1960's and 1970's with the
"Women's Liberation" movement, which helped to open up more
opportunities for women to work in previously male-dominated fields.
We focused so intently on getting money and position and things
that we lost sight of what it really means to be female. We forgot
that men are meant to serve us. We forgot how to be gracious and
serene. That is why, now that we have entered the 21st century and the
next millennium, it's time for us to take another leap forward and become
proud examples of the truly Modern Goddess. Cultivating the proper
Goddess attitude naturally attracts good into your life. Struggle
becomes a thing of the past. With the right attitude you can harness the
flow of good that is your god-given right and ride it gracefully toward
your desires. The Four Pillars
The Four Pillars of the Modern Goddess are the foundation on which
your new life is built. As you create and cultivate the Four Pillars in
yourself, your life begins to move and change in magical and
mysterious ways. To be a woman is to be an earthbound vessel for
the unseen power that is the true nature of our reality. That power is
meant to be honored and cherished, as is every woman on this
planet. The Four Pillars give us some simple guidelines for
remembering how beautiful and special each one of us is.
Pillar I: Never Rush.
A Goddess has time for everything that is important to her. She stays
calm and relaxed. If you are stressed out and harried, stop and
take a deep breath. You always have all the time you need if you
believe you do. Learn how to say no. Don't over-commit
yourself. Live life at your own pace.
Pillar II: Never Worry.
A Goddess knows that she always has everything she needs. Worry is needlessly borrowing trouble from the future. She knows
that things always have a way of working themselves out if we allow
them to. She has a deep and abiding faith that God is her
source and she always has enough.
Pillar III: Receive Graciously.
A Goddess graciously receives all gifts and compliments
with a simple, "thank you." She never belittles or criticizes herself or her
accomplishments. When someone wants to give you something or help
you, accept the gift with a smile. A Goddess always remembers
that allowing men to assist and serve her is the gift she gives to them.
Pillar IV: Appreciate Continually.
Accept and appreciate all the good that comes to you, especially the little things. Whatever you appreciate increases. Make it a habit
to say, "how usual!" whenever something good happens to you. The
more you express your gratitude, the more good the universe
sends your way.
How Usual
Most people react to something good happening to them as an out-
of-the-ordinary event. How often have you said, "I don't believe it!" or,
"that's amazing!" when you receive a delightful surprise. Words and
thoughts have great power, so if your words convey to the
universe that this is an unusual occurrence, it will comply. Your
subconscious will make sure that "it's amazing" that anything good ever
happens to you.
In our house we have adopted a more positive way of
responding. My husband and I love to exclaim (often in unison),
"how usual!" whenever something good happens to either of us
whether it is a parking spot, a good news phone call, or a nice fat check
in the mail. Receiving good is "how usual" in our life because we are in
the habit of mentally creating it. Why not get into the "how usual!" habit
yourself. Let the universe know that receiving good is a regular,
everyday thing for you, too. "How usual!"
Today these Four Pillars are the foundation of my everyday life.
They are all ingrained in me as habits of thinking and action.
Not only do they make daily living a joy, they also make it possible to
attract a great man who thinks the same way. It should be no surprise to
you that my husband has these very same habits and beliefs. You, too,
can attract wonderful people and good things into your life by
adopting the Four Pillars as your own. Barbara Wright Abernathy helps take-charge women become as
successful at love as they are at work. She's the author of Venus On
Top: Women Who Are Born to Lead and the Men Who Love Them.
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Do You Have What It Takes To Attract What You Want?
Do You Have What It Takes To Attract What You Want?
When you were a kid, did you play with magnets? They were almost magical, weren't they? It was always exhilarating to bring the magnet close to another object and to begin to feel that slight pulling sensation followed by the--snap--as the magnet and the other object became one. And, equally, it was always a little disappointing when the magnet didn't stick to the hoped-for object of attraction.Discovery #1: The Laws of Attraction State "like Attract Like"Do you know how a magnet works? At it's most basic, a piece of
magnetized steel will only attract products of iron ore and not
such things as wood or plastic. In other words, like attracts
like.Discovery #2: You Are Like a Magnet: What You Think Will Manifest Itself in Your LifeDo you think this magnetic principle is true in your own life? Do you believe that you can attract the things you want-like
success, power, and self-confidence?Human beings are like magnets and the principle holds true: like
attracts like. Whatever is in your mind at any given monment is the thing you are inviting to come and live with you, just as a magnet "invites" iron ore, so too, you attract the things that are in your mind. If you affirm your positive thoughts, you will attract greater and greater good in your life. However, the opposite is also true. If you affirm self doubt and worry thoughts, you will multiply these pessimistic affirmations and attract more and more negativity into your life.Discovery #3: Visualization and Effort Will Lead to AchievementBut thought alone will not completely magnetize you. As is true of anything worth attaining in life, hard work, dedication to your goals, and an unerring sense of faith are needed to actualize the ultimate attraction. If you can first think it--see it in your mind's eye and visualize it--and achievement will surely follow.Discovery #4: You Can Attract the Ideals You Desire Through Right Thought and ActionIf you are ready to begin attracting the ideals you truly desire, like prosperity, success, security, and self-confidence,
then you should be spending your time paying attention to what you are thinking about during your day."Think the things you want. The profoundest philosophy is
locked up in these few words. Think of them clearly, persistently, concentrating upon them with all the force and might of your mind, and struggle toward them with all your energy. This is the way to make yourself a magnet for the things you want.Here is a 3-Step exercise you can do for a week to see what you
are thinking about during the day.Step #1: Get a notbook and pen and carry it with you wherever you go.Step #2: Write down all your thoughts during a given day.Step #3: After a week review your findings.Barbara Johnson is the author of this article and the publisher of "The Secrets Of Getting What You Want" ebook. She has been studying self-actualization for over 15 years and she knows how you can unlock the door to a better life. Are You frustrated with the way your life is today? Do you want more out of life? Discover the Secrets to a Better Life.
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